When you see geese heading south for the winter flying along in a "V" formation, you might be interested in knowing that science has discovered why they fly that way. Research has revealed that as each bird flaps its wings, it creates an uplift for the bird immediately behind it. By flying in a "V" formation, the whole flock adds at least 71 percent greater flying range than if each bird flew on its own. (People who share a common direction and sense of community get where they are going more quickly and easily because they are traveling on one another's thrust.)Pretty good picture of what the church, as a movement, should be.
Whenever a goose falls out of formation, it suddenly feels the drag and resistance of trying to go it alone. It quickly gets back into formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird immediately in front. (If we as people have as much sense as a goose, we will stay in formation and so will those who are headed the same way we are.) When the lead goose gets tired, he rotates back in the "V" and another goose flies the point. (It pays to take turns doing hard jobs.)
These geese honk from behind to encourage those up front to keep up their speed. (What do we say when we honk from behind?)
And finally, when a goose gets sick, or is wounded by gunfire and falls out, two other geese fall out of formation and follow it down to help protect it. They stay with the goose until it is either able to fly again or dead, and then they launch out on their own or with another formation to catch up with their group. (If we have the sense of a goose, we will stand by each other like that.)
Thursday, May 14, 2009
We should be more like geese
Found this story in a book I'm reading by John Maxwell:
I almost died today
So I'm at the YMCA this morning doing a little cardiovascular torture. I started on the bike, not something I do very often, but I'm trying to trick my body and use different muscle groups. Next I moved to the treadmill and pretended to be a runner. It was a good workout, but that's not the reason I almost died.
While running to nowhere on the treadmill I was listening to a leadership podcast/interview with Rick Warren. I'm running away when he says this:
You cannot win your enemies to Christ, you can only win your friends.
At that moment I almost fell off the treadmill and died.
Now, I know I'm being a tad bit dramatic, but that's profound. That's good stuff. I think Christians in America are making more enemies than friends. Think about it: So often we are so busy standing for what's right, fighting for our rights or crusading against moral impurity that we forget our primary mission. We're commissioned to make disciples.
Too often, however, we've just made enemies.
What if instead we started making friends. Like with those people who don't agree with you... what if you became their friend. Like with "that group of people" who does "that horrible sin"... what if you just became their friend? What if you had them over for dinner?
Obviously, making enemies hasn't done much to change the world for the better. Maybe it's time we started making friends.
That's one thing I'd like Hub City Church (as a group of people, not a Sunday event) to be known for: Friend of sinners, friend of the city, friends.
While running to nowhere on the treadmill I was listening to a leadership podcast/interview with Rick Warren. I'm running away when he says this:
You cannot win your enemies to Christ, you can only win your friends.
At that moment I almost fell off the treadmill and died.
Now, I know I'm being a tad bit dramatic, but that's profound. That's good stuff. I think Christians in America are making more enemies than friends. Think about it: So often we are so busy standing for what's right, fighting for our rights or crusading against moral impurity that we forget our primary mission. We're commissioned to make disciples.
Too often, however, we've just made enemies.
What if instead we started making friends. Like with those people who don't agree with you... what if you became their friend. Like with "that group of people" who does "that horrible sin"... what if you just became their friend? What if you had them over for dinner?
Obviously, making enemies hasn't done much to change the world for the better. Maybe it's time we started making friends.
That's one thing I'd like Hub City Church (as a group of people, not a Sunday event) to be known for: Friend of sinners, friend of the city, friends.
MIP article
There's a great article in the Herald-Journal Escape promoting Movies in the Park. You can read it here.
Click on the link to the article about 2319 times... then it will show up on the front page as one of the most read articles online. :) Just trying to manipulate the system.
Click on the link to the article about 2319 times... then it will show up on the front page as one of the most read articles online. :) Just trying to manipulate the system.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Leadership Spartanburg
I'm applying for Leadership Spartanburg this year. It's a program that brings leaders from various backgrounds and industries together to make a difference in Spartanburg County. I would appreciate you praying for favor as I apply.
One of my desires is to put down roots in Spartanburg. That takes relationships and time. I'm thinking that Leadership Spartanburg will be a great way to develop relationships with influencers in the community. The application will be sent tomorrow. Thanks for your prayers.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
No inspiration
I'd like to write something, but have no inspiration... hmmm...
On a side note, my dog is getting "fixed" today. Now that you know that your day is much, much better.
On a side note, my dog is getting "fixed" today. Now that you know that your day is much, much better.
Monday, May 11, 2009
I deserve it
This doesn't happen very often (even though it probably will now that I'm writing this), but I felt like yesterday's sermon was aweful. No one told me it was aweful. I just felt that way. Actually, people said how much they got out of the sermon, but I still felt like I threw up a flying duck.
I think I've figured out why I felt this way. I talked about one of our biggest struggles as men: Insecurity. It's fitting that I'd be insecure doing a sermon on the antithesis of insecurity.
I'm just glad that God's bigger than how I feel after I preach. I'm so thankful that the Spirit moves and works and uses imperfect people. Aren't you?
I think I've figured out why I felt this way. I talked about one of our biggest struggles as men: Insecurity. It's fitting that I'd be insecure doing a sermon on the antithesis of insecurity.
I'm just glad that God's bigger than how I feel after I preach. I'm so thankful that the Spirit moves and works and uses imperfect people. Aren't you?
Thursday, May 07, 2009
Wednesday, May 06, 2009
Tuesday, May 05, 2009
The iBible
We showed this video on Sunday. Quite possibly one of the funniest things I've ever seen. Seriously, read you Bible... but don't use this.
Move out of the ghetto
This is one of the parenting books I'm reading this year in my attempt to read at least 4 parenting books by January 1. It was recommended by Vince. I'm just in the intro, but quotes like these get me excited:
The Christian subculture we have chosen to raise our children in might precondition them to spiritual apathy or antagonism.... You may have unwittingly taken up residence inside an evangelical ghetto, thinking it somehow offers a safer and healthier environment in which your children can develop their relationships with God. It doesn't. My hope is, if that is your case, this book will help you move out of that ghetto and take up residence closer to the front lines of the battle for the cross.
That's good. I want my kids to be missionaries. I want my family on the front lines of the battle for the cross.
Brain Block
Got a bit of brain block this morning. We're starting a new series on Sunday called Man Up. Basically it's a series geared towards men and it's about courage. We're going to be looking at 3 familiar stories in the book of Daniel. This Sunday I'll be introing the entire series, giving some background on the context of the stories and defining courage.
I'm stuck, though. So, in light of what I've just shared, do you have any suggestions? Any stories about the wimpiness of our culture? Any stories of courage in the face of adversity?
Courage is doing the right thing even when it's hard. Here's your chance to contribute.
I'm stuck, though. So, in light of what I've just shared, do you have any suggestions? Any stories about the wimpiness of our culture? Any stories of courage in the face of adversity?
Courage is doing the right thing even when it's hard. Here's your chance to contribute.
Monday, May 04, 2009
Don't get disqualified
The subject of leadership intrigues me. One of the reasons why is that all of us are leaders in some realm. We're leaders at work, at home, in the community, or maybe we just lead ourselves. Right now I'm reading this book. It's a good book, especially for young adults. While at the gym, working my tail off on the elliptical this AM, I read a chapter on things that disqualify us.
I know so many people who have either disqualified themselves to lead or can never reach there full leadership potential, and it's usually the result of what Irwin talks about in this chapter. It is so important that I wanted to write a post about it (mainly as a warning and reminder to myself). So what are things that disqualify us from leadership?
Poor Interpersonal Relationships: Some people just can't work good with others. You'll never be the leader you were meant to be if you can't get along with people. It's about working together. It's about thinking of others.
Arrogance: Need I contribute anything? There is nothing I despise more (which probably means I can or do have a problem with this). These people are always right. They overestimate their abilities. I love this quote, "They don't adapt well to changes they haven't authored because they cannot condescend to support a position created by others." Ouch. Key to being a great leader is Humility.
Volatility: Ever worked with someone like this? They just explode. You never know what to expect. You don't know what makes them happy.
Aloofness: These people are detached, insensitive, dismissive of others and uncommunicative. They aren't much fun to work with. They are usually critical and demanding.
Inability to Change: I love what Irwin writes about this: "As members of an organization move to higher levels or different departments or organizations, their skills must change. They must be flexible enough to learn new approaches that match the needs of the new situation. Leaders who derail often fail to adapt. When they enter a new department or a new organization, they rely too heavily on methods or models they have used in the past." This one's a big one for us at Hub City. If we are going to grow then things are going to change. We can't do things like we've done things in the past. This is true for the entire organization.
I don't want to get derailed. I don't want you to get derailed either. To find out if you're susceptible to any of these check out www.runwiththebulls.net to take an online assessment.
I know so many people who have either disqualified themselves to lead or can never reach there full leadership potential, and it's usually the result of what Irwin talks about in this chapter. It is so important that I wanted to write a post about it (mainly as a warning and reminder to myself). So what are things that disqualify us from leadership?
Poor Interpersonal Relationships: Some people just can't work good with others. You'll never be the leader you were meant to be if you can't get along with people. It's about working together. It's about thinking of others.
Arrogance: Need I contribute anything? There is nothing I despise more (which probably means I can or do have a problem with this). These people are always right. They overestimate their abilities. I love this quote, "They don't adapt well to changes they haven't authored because they cannot condescend to support a position created by others." Ouch. Key to being a great leader is Humility.
Volatility: Ever worked with someone like this? They just explode. You never know what to expect. You don't know what makes them happy.
Aloofness: These people are detached, insensitive, dismissive of others and uncommunicative. They aren't much fun to work with. They are usually critical and demanding.
Inability to Change: I love what Irwin writes about this: "As members of an organization move to higher levels or different departments or organizations, their skills must change. They must be flexible enough to learn new approaches that match the needs of the new situation. Leaders who derail often fail to adapt. When they enter a new department or a new organization, they rely too heavily on methods or models they have used in the past." This one's a big one for us at Hub City. If we are going to grow then things are going to change. We can't do things like we've done things in the past. This is true for the entire organization.
I don't want to get derailed. I don't want you to get derailed either. To find out if you're susceptible to any of these check out www.runwiththebulls.net to take an online assessment.
Pics from the Baptism
We had our second baptism @ Hub City yesterday. I got to baptize Matthew and Calista. It was fun (Matthew swam around the baptistry before he got dunked). Frankie baptized Christian. I'm really proud of Christian. It was a cool celeb
ration. Here are some pics.
ration. Here are some pics.
Hey Mickey you're so fine...
A Herald-Journal reporter snapped this picture and it was on the goupstate.com slideshow for Friday night. Isn't Mickey (I mean "Ricky)) Mouse amazing?
I love Spring Fling. Don't know why more people from Sparkle City don't take advantage of the event. It's a blast.
Friday night, Nathan and Matthew were in the kid's bike race. Matthew won second in his race and won a spiffy new racing helmet! It was fun watching my boys race. I think we'll enter Levi next year.
Friday, May 01, 2009
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Recital
Tonight Nathan has his first piano recital. He's a bit nervous, but is going to do a great job.
I think nervousness is a good thing. It motivates us to practice, and when we move forward and do what we need to do, in spite of our nervousness, growth occurs. Our character is developed. We realize that we can do more than we thought we could.
I think nervousness is a good thing. It motivates us to practice, and when we move forward and do what we need to do, in spite of our nervousness, growth occurs. Our character is developed. We realize that we can do more than we thought we could.
All new
I feel like it's Christmas. I just got my internet and phone services switched, set up and good to go. Went with Charter for internet and vonage for phone. I didn't even have my vonage phone set up when I got an email telling me I had a voicemail. I was then able to listen to my voicemail in itunes. How cool is that!?!
I'm glad to be done with AT&T. But FYI, my new email is jonathanseverette@gmail.com. If you send anything to bellsouth.net it'll come back to you.
I'm glad to be done with AT&T. But FYI, my new email is jonathanseverette@gmail.com. If you send anything to bellsouth.net it'll come back to you.
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
New Website
Frankie's been working hard on redesigning Hub City's website. It went live today and he did a great job. I love it. Just in time for the Movies in the Park promotion to begin.
Twouble with Twitters: SuperNews!
Hilarious. This one's for Frankie who forced me to drink the koolade.
Monday, April 27, 2009
10 Dumb things Smart Christians Believe
Got your attention? I was hooked on this book from the title. Why? Because we believe some dumb stuff as Christians. This book exposes 10 of the most dangerous things that we believe.
There are a number of reasons why I enjoyed this book. It's easy to read. It's practical. But the main reason I love this book is because it takes us back to the Bible, to examine what the Bible actually says. It even goes so far as to say to examine the Bible to make sure that what the book is talking about is true. I love telling people to go to the Bible (we way too often take somebody else's word for what the Bible says instead of reading it for ourselves).
There may be a future Hub City series that comes out of this book. It's worth your time. Read it.
Thursday, April 23, 2009
My Dream
I had a dream last night. I was standing in my kitchen, next to the pantry, when I got a phone call from John Ortburg (in case you're wondering who he is, he's an author and his book, If you want to walk on water, you've got to get out of the boat, is a must read). He wanted to post a link to my blog on this website he was setting up. I was blown away. He chose me!
Then I woke up.
But just in case you're reading this, John, feel free to give me a call.
Then I woke up.
But just in case you're reading this, John, feel free to give me a call.
Bit the bullet
I couldn't handle the pressure from Frankie any longer. The guy's a slave driver. I'm on the twitter wagon. Fellow twitterers, you can follow me a jonathane.
Don't you feel better now?
Don't you feel better now?
Today is the day
That's right, after three and a half weeks, it looks like I'll be getting high speed internet access again. I can barely contain my excitement.
On another note, Frankie thinks I should twitter. What do you think? Any comment?
On another note, Frankie thinks I should twitter. What do you think? Any comment?
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Frustrated
It's been almost 3 weeks without internet at my house. I am frustrated. We've decided to ditch AT&T. I've been very disappointed with them since it's all their fault and they just have a whatever attitude. Gonna go with Charter, but come to find out, there's no cable from the box to our house, so they've got to come lay a cable.
I guess God doesn't want us to have high-speed internet... or he's laughing at me.
I guess God doesn't want us to have high-speed internet... or he's laughing at me.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Thoughts on Easter
Yesterday was a big day. Nathan no longer believes in the Easter Bunny, and as you know, it was our first Easter as Hub City Church. Honestly, I did not know what to expect. I'm doing a series that invites people to consider what makes Christianity great and to become Christians, which is way out of my comfort zone (but is an important first step to becoming a disciple of Jesus). We moved to a larger theater to create more space. We switched sound systems. We switched lighting. We had a lot of new stuff happening.
It was a great morning. Three people prayed to become Christians (that we know of). Not that numbers matter, but we had 104 people... 79 of them adults in the gathering. That's our largest crowd ever. That was encouraging. Now we just need to get those peopIe connected into a hub group. It was a really cool morning.
I am so thankful to everybody who helped make yesterday a success. Thanks to all the people that invited folks. Thanks to Chris for making the new light and projector stands. Thanks to Josh and the band for doing a great job.
Now all we need is a sound guy to come help us out for a few weeks. I'm not that good. We need someone who knows what they are doing to help our guys have a better blended sound.
It was a great morning. Three people prayed to become Christians (that we know of). Not that numbers matter, but we had 104 people... 79 of them adults in the gathering. That's our largest crowd ever. That was encouraging. Now we just need to get those peopIe connected into a hub group. It was a really cool morning.
I am so thankful to everybody who helped make yesterday a success. Thanks to all the people that invited folks. Thanks to Chris for making the new light and projector stands. Thanks to Josh and the band for doing a great job.
Now all we need is a sound guy to come help us out for a few weeks. I'm not that good. We need someone who knows what they are doing to help our guys have a better blended sound.
Friday, April 10, 2009
Experiencing the Spirit
When you think about books on God and Jesus, there are a bunch of titles that come to mind, but to find a book on the Holy Spirit is a bit difficult. Actually, most books on the Holy Spirit are a little far out there for me (which probably says more about me than those books). But, Henry Blackaby's book, Experiencing the Spirit is a must read. I am always challenged by anything Blackaby writes, but reading this book has reshaped the way I pray and given me a new perspective on my part in what God is doing in the world.
What I find so incredible about this book is it’s completely different take on the Holy Spirit and spiritual gifts. At one point in the book Henry Blackaby asks, “So what is my spiritual gift? The Holy Spirit.” I love that.
I wish I had copies of this book to give to everyone I know. Now stop reading this, click the link above, and order this book.
Thursday, April 09, 2009
Top Ten reasons to come to church at Hub City on Easter
Top 10 Reasons to come to Hub City on Easter
10. You don’t have to dress up.
9. You get free coffee and donuts
8. The seats are really comfortable
7. You can stay after and watch a movie
6. You get an hour long break from your kids
5. The person that’s been nagging you for months to check out Hub City will finally shut up.
4. You might find a date.
3. It’s Easter, for crying out loud. You have to go to church.
2. What other church can you go to where jerks in the audience heckle the Pastor on stage. :)
1. You’ll find out What’s so Great About Christianity.
10. You don’t have to dress up.
9. You get free coffee and donuts
8. The seats are really comfortable
7. You can stay after and watch a movie
6. You get an hour long break from your kids
5. The person that’s been nagging you for months to check out Hub City will finally shut up.
4. You might find a date.
3. It’s Easter, for crying out loud. You have to go to church.
2. What other church can you go to where jerks in the audience heckle the Pastor on stage. :)
1. You’ll find out What’s so Great About Christianity.
Wednesday, April 08, 2009
Top Ten ways to get someone to come to Hub City with you on Easter
Top 10 Ways you can get somebody to come with you to Hub City on Easter:
10. Trick them: Say, “Hey, wanna go to the movies?”
9. Guilt Them: It’s Easter, for crying out loud.
8. Bribe Them: Promise to buy them lunch afterward.
7. Force Them: It’s amazing what you can do with a ski mask and a bread truck.
6. Date Them: That guy that’s been asking you out for months, now’s your chance to turn him off for good.
5. Pay Them: People will do anything for money.
4. Peer-Pressure Them: Everybody’s doing it.
3. Offend Them: You’re a no good, rotten loser if you don’t come.
2. Tickle Them: Unless they’re Elmo they’ll come just to make you stop.
1. Ask them: Take a risk and invite somebody.
10. Trick them: Say, “Hey, wanna go to the movies?”
9. Guilt Them: It’s Easter, for crying out loud.
8. Bribe Them: Promise to buy them lunch afterward.
7. Force Them: It’s amazing what you can do with a ski mask and a bread truck.
6. Date Them: That guy that’s been asking you out for months, now’s your chance to turn him off for good.
5. Pay Them: People will do anything for money.
4. Peer-Pressure Them: Everybody’s doing it.
3. Offend Them: You’re a no good, rotten loser if you don’t come.
2. Tickle Them: Unless they’re Elmo they’ll come just to make you stop.
1. Ask them: Take a risk and invite somebody.
Tuesday, April 07, 2009
Funny story
Last night at supper Liz, Nathan and I were finishing up eating and talking about Easter, what it means and it's significance to us a Christians when Nathan says, "I know all about Easter... the Easter bunny brings presents and candy... wait... (and he paused)... you guys are the Easter bunny aren't you? You trick us into thinking there's an Easter bunny so you can sneak us presents."
It was like a light came on. I thought his follow up sentence was going to be about Santa, but it wasn't. We're "sneaking" presents and candy. Nice.
Monday, April 06, 2009
The Treasure Principle
I cannot say enough good stuff about The Treasure Principle. This little book is all about giving (which is turning some of you off right now). But it is most definitely the BEST book I've ever read on giving.
Basically, here's the Treasure Principle: You can't take it with you--but you can send it on ahead. Alcorn gives 6 keys to the treasure principle (these came from pg. 95):
- God owns everything. I'm his money manager. We are the managers of the assets God has entrusted--not given-- to us.
- My heart always goes where I put God's money. Watch what happens when you reallocate your money from temporal things to eternal things.
- Heaven, not earth, is my home. We are citizens of "a better country--a heavenly one."
- I should live not for the dot but for the line. From the dot--our present life on earth--extends a line that goes on forever, which is eternity in heaven.
- Giving is the only antidote to materialism. Giving is a joyful surrender to a greater person and a greater agenda. It dethrones me and exalts Him.
- God prospers me not to raise my standard of living, but to raise my standard of giving. God gives us more money than we need so we can give--generously.
PS. I was able to give a copy of this book away during our "I Need a Bailout" series a few weeks ago. If you got that copy I would love to hear your thoughts on the book.
Saturday's commentary
It's an enormous honor to be able to write a commentary for the Herald-Journal. You can read this past Saturday's commentary here. I'd love to hear your thoughts/comments.
6 Days and Counting
I am really, really pumped about Hub City's first Easter. There's a lot to do, so I would appreciate your prayers (so would Frankie and Josh).
I'm really thankful for all the hard work people have put into moving into the new theater. Thanks to Chris for designing some new lights and divider curtains. Thanks to the band for learning some new songs. Thanks to everyone who's inviting folks.
We have reason to celebrate. Jesus is Alive!!!
I'm really thankful for all the hard work people have put into moving into the new theater. Thanks to Chris for designing some new lights and divider curtains. Thanks to the band for learning some new songs. Thanks to everyone who's inviting folks.
We have reason to celebrate. Jesus is Alive!!!
Friday, April 03, 2009
Good stuff
Still no Internet at home, so I'm in the library. Just finished reading this book. It was OK. Not sure if I would recommend it or not, but here are some quotes from the end that were good.
God is about giving the good gift. Jesus is God’s good give for the healing of the world. The church is Jesus’ body, a good give for the healing of the world.
It’s for the benefit of others.
For the good of those who look different from us.
A church is an organization that exists for the benefit of nonmembers.
If our church was taken away – from our city, our neighborhood, our region – who would protest?
Only the people who are members?
Only those who are a part of it?
Only those who attend its services?
Thursday, April 02, 2009
Houston, we have a problem
So check this out. AT&T made a blunder. They canceled my DSL service accidentally last Friday. And supposedly, there’s only a limited number of DSL connections that run to my neighborhood and as soon as they disconnected my number they hooked up somebody else and they’re not sure if they’ll be able to fit me back in. On top of that I can’t dial up because it says my computer isn’t compatible. Very frustrating.
So in order to get email or get online I’ve got to drive somewhere. That’s why there’s been no post or update in a while. If you email me or message me it may take a while for me to get back to you.
I'm sitting in a parking lot, outside of a coffee shop sending this... I know, it's sad.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Clutter-Free Christianity
I was really excited to read Clutter-Free Christianity. For one, I love simplicity and we've made Christianity something that's way more complicated than Jesus intended.
Mainly it's a book about our hearts and our responsibility in the whole "heart-transformation process." While some of the book was just a rehashing of things I already know, the chapters on being content and prayer are worth the price of the book.
The best part of the book is the ending. The last chapter includes some practical questions that will guide you through the heart-changing disciplines that are discussed in the book. I'm all about doing something with what you know and the last section helps in taking the knowledge that you've gained in the book and putting it into practice.
The only negative about the book is that there are times when I can tell I'm reading a book by a Southern Baptist pastor. Not that that's a bad thing, but for some reason (my dysfunction) it makes me cringe. I think the guys a better writer than that (or he needs a better editor).
Thursday, March 26, 2009
I'm giving it away
I've got a copy of Clutter-Free Christianity to give away to one of the three people who read this blog. So who wants it?
Taxes
Maybe it's just me, but I feel abused after paying my car taxes. See you at the corner of Church and Main... I'll be the one with the tin cup.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Quotes on Prayer
Remember, no one has time to pray; we hav to take time from other things that are valuable in order to understand how necessary prayer is. Oswald Chambers
To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing. Martin Luther
We shouldn't limit our praying to situations when the answer seems probable; we should definitely also pray when the answers seem impossible. Robert Jeffress
To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing. Martin Luther
We shouldn't limit our praying to situations when the answer seems probable; we should definitely also pray when the answers seem impossible. Robert Jeffress
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
We're worried
Matthew got this note from a girl in school yesterday. Notice how he responded with a yes. He's 5.
Monday, March 23, 2009
Some good quotes
Here are some great quotes I read this AM out of this book.
- The desire for more is like a thief that robs us of the enjoyment of th epresent moment.
- More. Newer. Different. Larger. Better They're all symptoms of a dissatisfaction that prevents us from enjoying the present.
- The opposite of more isn't less. Instead it's contentment.
Easter's coming
I'm really pumped about Easter. We're starting a series on Easter that we're calling What's so Great About Christianity?
We're going all out for this series. Heck, it's our first Easter as a church! We get to celebrate Jesus' death and resurrection. In light of that, we NEED to celebrate.
So here's what we're doing: We're about to outgrow the theater that we currently meet in, so we're going to be moving to a larger theater (I think it will be #8... still @ Spartan 16). Frankie's putting together a series of videos that will be flat-out hilarious (all I can say is if Jesus made a sitcom...). The band is taking the next two Sundays off to get ready (we're going acoustic for the next two weeks... nice!). We're gearing the entire series to people who aren't Christians or who don't like Christians or who think Christianity is a waste (so for this series we won't be doing communion each Sunday).
But here's the deal: I'm scared to death! I am confident that God wants us to move to a larger theater... so is the rest of our team. I'm confident that it's time for us to do a series like What's so Great About Christianity? I'm confident that we need to do everything we can to invite people who are far away from God, disconnected from God or who think Christianity is a bunch of crap.
But what if it's a total flop? What if nobody comes to know Jesus? What if every single one of our invitations falls flat? What if nothing supernatural takes place?
You know what? All of my worries and concerns are about things that I have NO control over. I can't save anyone. That's God's job. I can't make people accept my invitation. That's their job. I can't force God to move. He moves when He wants for His glory, not mine.
All I can do is my part... and I'm going to work my butt off to do my part, and I want to challenge you to work your butt off to do your part. And just like Jonathan in the Old Testament, "Perhaps the Lord will move on our behalf." Wouldn't that be awesome!
We're going all out for this series. Heck, it's our first Easter as a church! We get to celebrate Jesus' death and resurrection. In light of that, we NEED to celebrate.
So here's what we're doing: We're about to outgrow the theater that we currently meet in, so we're going to be moving to a larger theater (I think it will be #8... still @ Spartan 16). Frankie's putting together a series of videos that will be flat-out hilarious (all I can say is if Jesus made a sitcom...). The band is taking the next two Sundays off to get ready (we're going acoustic for the next two weeks... nice!). We're gearing the entire series to people who aren't Christians or who don't like Christians or who think Christianity is a waste (so for this series we won't be doing communion each Sunday).
But here's the deal: I'm scared to death! I am confident that God wants us to move to a larger theater... so is the rest of our team. I'm confident that it's time for us to do a series like What's so Great About Christianity? I'm confident that we need to do everything we can to invite people who are far away from God, disconnected from God or who think Christianity is a bunch of crap.
But what if it's a total flop? What if nobody comes to know Jesus? What if every single one of our invitations falls flat? What if nothing supernatural takes place?
You know what? All of my worries and concerns are about things that I have NO control over. I can't save anyone. That's God's job. I can't make people accept my invitation. That's their job. I can't force God to move. He moves when He wants for His glory, not mine.
All I can do is my part... and I'm going to work my butt off to do my part, and I want to challenge you to work your butt off to do your part. And just like Jonathan in the Old Testament, "Perhaps the Lord will move on our behalf." Wouldn't that be awesome!
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Resources for Bailout series
Like I shared this morning, here are some GREAT resources that you can and should read:
Books:
Your Money Counts - Howard Dayton
The Treasure Principle - Randy Alcorn
Living Rich for Less - Ellie Kay
The Total Money Makeover - Dave Ramsey
Money, Possessions and Eternity - Randy Alcorn
Fields of Gold - Andy Stanley
Web Sites:
www.crown.org
www.daveramsey.com
Books:
Your Money Counts - Howard Dayton
The Treasure Principle - Randy Alcorn
Living Rich for Less - Ellie Kay
The Total Money Makeover - Dave Ramsey
Money, Possessions and Eternity - Randy Alcorn
Fields of Gold - Andy Stanley
Web Sites:
www.crown.org
www.daveramsey.com
Thursday, March 19, 2009
The bad, the broken, the hurt, the lonely
I came across something that reminded me how much I desire for Hub City Church to be a community for the bad, the broken, the hurt, the lonely, the imperfect, etc. Jesus was always caught spending time with messy people, with people who didn't quite fit in, with people who were at the bottom of the totem pole in thier society (sinners and tax collectors). I desire for those people to find relationships, acceptance and Jesus by being a part of Hub City.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
One of our values
One of our values at Hub City is that when we do our part, God does his part.
I read this passage this morning. It illustrates the value that when we do our part, God does his part, over and over again. At the end of that passage is this verse: As each part does its own special work, it helps the other parts grow, so that the whole body is healthy and growing and full of love.
One of my passions is to see Hub City be a body that is healthy, growing and full of love. But to get there, according to this verse, each part of our body must do its own special work, and in doing its own special work we will help each other grow, and the end result is a body that's healthy, growing and full of love.
Which leads me to this question: Are those of us that are a part of Hub City each doing our own special work? And, as the leader, am I doing my part to prepare and equip people to do their own special work?
Just some questions I'm working through this morning.
I read this passage this morning. It illustrates the value that when we do our part, God does his part, over and over again. At the end of that passage is this verse: As each part does its own special work, it helps the other parts grow, so that the whole body is healthy and growing and full of love.
One of my passions is to see Hub City be a body that is healthy, growing and full of love. But to get there, according to this verse, each part of our body must do its own special work, and in doing its own special work we will help each other grow, and the end result is a body that's healthy, growing and full of love.
Which leads me to this question: Are those of us that are a part of Hub City each doing our own special work? And, as the leader, am I doing my part to prepare and equip people to do their own special work?
Just some questions I'm working through this morning.
Friday, March 13, 2009
A dangerous prayer
I was reminded of something we used to pray that I want to pray again, but am a bit afraid to pray: God overwhelm us.
I think that the disciples in Acts were overwhelmed by what God was doing. That's why they were filled with awe. That's why many people were added to the faith. That's why they saw the supernatural working of God.
I want to see that too. I want to be a part of that. Would you join with me and praying God overwhelm us.
I think that the disciples in Acts were overwhelmed by what God was doing. That's why they were filled with awe. That's why many people were added to the faith. That's why they saw the supernatural working of God.
I want to see that too. I want to be a part of that. Would you join with me and praying God overwhelm us.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
We're all lost part 6
I’ve titled this series “we’re all lost.” I’m still thinking through this, but the reason I’ve titled it this way is because we’re all lost, or we were all once lost, or we could wander off and get lost. I mean, even if you’ve been following Jesus for 30 years, aren’t there times when you feel a bit disconnected, or away-from your Heavenly Father?
In light of what we’ve shared the past week, how are you lost? You’ve got a God who is searching desperately for you, who is coming after you or who is waiting patiently for you.
Or are you lost in your smugness? That’s the scariest place of all.
In light of what we’ve shared the past week, how are you lost? You’ve got a God who is searching desperately for you, who is coming after you or who is waiting patiently for you.
Or are you lost in your smugness? That’s the scariest place of all.
We're all lost part 5
There’s one character who in the final story who never gets enough attention: The older brother. You can read about him here.
He’s just as lost as his rebellious brother. The only problem is that he’s too smug to realize it. He’s arrogant. He’s selfish. He’s got this entitled attitude.
Unfortunately, I think this way too often describes Christians and the church in America. I could say more, but I don’t really think I need to.
The thing that really blows me away is that the father does nothing to convince the older brother to come in to the party. I’m still thinking through this, but it’s as if he just lets the older brother miss out on the party.
He’s just as lost as his rebellious brother. The only problem is that he’s too smug to realize it. He’s arrogant. He’s selfish. He’s got this entitled attitude.
Unfortunately, I think this way too often describes Christians and the church in America. I could say more, but I don’t really think I need to.
The thing that really blows me away is that the father does nothing to convince the older brother to come in to the party. I’m still thinking through this, but it’s as if he just lets the older brother miss out on the party.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
We're all lost part 4
The third story that Jesus tells in Luke 15 is probably one of his most familiar stories. You can read it here. What we see in this story is a son who intentionally rebels against his father and has to come back begging for mercy and forgiveness.
I think that this story illustrates what my understanding of the entire chapter has always been: Intentional rebellion against God. But I also have a new perspective on this story.
I find it incredible that this is the only story of the three where the person who represents God, in this case the father, doesn’t go after what’s lost. In the previous two stories the shepherd and the woman went after the lost sheep and coin. But in this story the father lets the son leave and then waits, and waits, and waits for the son to return home. And notice he doesn’t wait like we would, with anger and bitterness. He waits with compassion and love.
He doesn’t give up on the rebellious son. And when the son returns, what does he do? He ignores the excuses and throws another party!
Come back tomorrow for another thought on this third story.
I think that this story illustrates what my understanding of the entire chapter has always been: Intentional rebellion against God. But I also have a new perspective on this story.
I find it incredible that this is the only story of the three where the person who represents God, in this case the father, doesn’t go after what’s lost. In the previous two stories the shepherd and the woman went after the lost sheep and coin. But in this story the father lets the son leave and then waits, and waits, and waits for the son to return home. And notice he doesn’t wait like we would, with anger and bitterness. He waits with compassion and love.
He doesn’t give up on the rebellious son. And when the son returns, what does he do? He ignores the excuses and throws another party!
Come back tomorrow for another thought on this third story.
We're all lost part 3
Continuing on with my new perspective on Luke 15, after the story of the lost sheep Jesus tells the story about a woman who has ten coins and she loses one. You can read it here. After she discovers that a coin is missing she does whatever it takes to find that lost coin.
Have you ever thought about that coin? It’s not like it intentionally rolled away. It didn’t get distracted by that crack in between the cushions on the couch. Actually, in all probability, it just fell off and got lost.
This makes me think about people who are born into regions of the world or families where there’s no influence of the Gospel. They didn’t choose to be born Muslim or Hindu or Agnostic or disinterested. They are just lost.
But notice that God, who’s compared to a woman, moves heaven and earth to find the person, who is compared to a coin. And when the lost is found he has another party!
Have you ever thought about that coin? It’s not like it intentionally rolled away. It didn’t get distracted by that crack in between the cushions on the couch. Actually, in all probability, it just fell off and got lost.
This makes me think about people who are born into regions of the world or families where there’s no influence of the Gospel. They didn’t choose to be born Muslim or Hindu or Agnostic or disinterested. They are just lost.
But notice that God, who’s compared to a woman, moves heaven and earth to find the person, who is compared to a coin. And when the lost is found he has another party!
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
We're all lost part 2
Here’s the new perspective on Luke 15 I’m thinking through. You can read the story here. Basically, in the first story Jesus shares, there’s this shepherd who has 100 sheep. One of the sheep wanders off, and he leaves the 99 to go after the one.
Do you know anything about sheep? They aren’t that bright. They’re easily distracted. They don’t intentionally rebel against their shepherd. They just see something cool and wander in that direction. Oooh… yummy green grass.
I think that’s a pretty good description of Christians. We’re under the control of the shepherd, but something distracts us and we wander off and God has to come chase us down. We don’t intentionally rebel against God. We just get distracted and wander off. There are all kinds of distractions: Money, fame, church, sex, worry, religion, insert your distraction here ________.
But what’s so amazing in this story is that God (the shepherd) comes looking for us. He actually abandons the others to go after the wanderer, and when he finds us he doesn’t yell at us and put us in time-out for wandering off. He throws a freakin’ party!
What if, in this story of the lost sheep, the sheep are those who are already followers of Jesus who end up wandering off or drifting away? What if those of us who are in, who are disciples of Jesus, can still get lost? Can you see how this is a new perspective (or maybe I’m just slow)?
(Now before you shoot down my theology make sure you read all the posts. Jesus tells these three stories as a package deal.)
Monday, March 09, 2009
We're all lost
Our Hub Group discussed Luke 15 last night. I love our Hub Group by the way. We had some great discussion. I’m really enjoying people opening up. But an observation by Allen gave me a completely different perspective on the three stories from Luke 15.
If you’re not familiar with the stories in Luke 15 go read the chapter now. Jesus is hanging out with this crowd of sinners and tax collectors. And this fact really ticks the religious leaders off. “Why is Jesus spending time with them and not us? (Unfortunately, there’s always been an “us vs. them” mentality… but that’s for another post). In response, Jesus launches into three stories: There’s the story of a lost sheep, a story about a lost coin and a story about a lost son.
So what new perspective do I have on these stories? Check back tomorrow and we’ll look at the story of the Lost Sheep.
Friday, March 06, 2009
Interdependent
Interdependency is when I am convinced, not that I have been told, but that I am convinced that I can't do what I'm supposed to do unless you do what you're supposed to do. I realize my responsibility, but at the same time I realize that my responsibility is contingent upon other people fulfilling their responsibility. - Andy Stanley
Love this quote. It's a great picture of a healthy team, church, and discipleship relationship. It makes me ask myself, "Am I doing my part?" It makes me ask you, "Are you doing your part?"
Love this quote. It's a great picture of a healthy team, church, and discipleship relationship. It makes me ask myself, "Am I doing my part?" It makes me ask you, "Are you doing your part?"
Where have I been?
Great question. It's been a slow blogging week. I know you've missed me.
I've waited until now to share this, but one reason it's been a slow blog week is because of something I'm doing for Lent. I've never been one to celebrate Lent, but I read something that challenged me this year. It was an equation shared by Mark Batterson: + + - = x. Make sense? Good! What that means is Addition + Subtraction = Multiplication. He explains it really well on his blog, but here's what it means for me and Lent.
For Lent this year I'm giving up reading other people's blogs. That might not sound like much to you, but I follow a good number of blogs and learn all kinds of great stuff from reading what I read. But I'm giving it up for Lent and replacing that time with some more reading in the Bible. The goal is to put more Scripture into my head so that I can better hear God's voice, live more obediently to him, and grow as a disciple of Jesus.
I've waited till now to share because, honestly, I didn't know if I could give up reading blogs. It's so easy to click my Bloglines header. But so far so good. Been reading through Nehemiah and Isaiah. Good stuff.
I've waited until now to share this, but one reason it's been a slow blog week is because of something I'm doing for Lent. I've never been one to celebrate Lent, but I read something that challenged me this year. It was an equation shared by Mark Batterson: + + - = x. Make sense? Good! What that means is Addition + Subtraction = Multiplication. He explains it really well on his blog, but here's what it means for me and Lent.
For Lent this year I'm giving up reading other people's blogs. That might not sound like much to you, but I follow a good number of blogs and learn all kinds of great stuff from reading what I read. But I'm giving it up for Lent and replacing that time with some more reading in the Bible. The goal is to put more Scripture into my head so that I can better hear God's voice, live more obediently to him, and grow as a disciple of Jesus.
I've waited till now to share because, honestly, I didn't know if I could give up reading blogs. It's so easy to click my Bloglines header. But so far so good. Been reading through Nehemiah and Isaiah. Good stuff.
Sunday, March 01, 2009
Sex Ed Resources
I have had a blast doing the Sex Ed series. Like I said over and over again, we live in a sexed up culture, and as a result, it's difficult to know what's true about sex and what's a lie. There are serious consequences to believing the lies. They take us to a place where we don't want to go. But the truth can set us free.
I know many people struggle with this issue, so here are some resources that might be helpful:
Struggling with Porn: www.xxxchurch.com
For before you're married: Going all the way,
For Newlyweds: Love for a lifetime,
For married: Celebration of sex, Sheet Music
I know many people struggle with this issue, so here are some resources that might be helpful:
Struggling with Porn: www.xxxchurch.com
For before you're married: Going all the way,
For Newlyweds: Love for a lifetime,
For married: Celebration of sex, Sheet Music
Thursday, February 26, 2009
A challenge
Are you a reader? I love reading. I wish I had more time to read more books. But the truth is most people don't like to read. That may be you (probably not if you're reading this blog). But I had this thought today that involves reading, and it may be a challenge to you.
Have you ever compared the amount of time you spent getting ready for, planning and preparing for your wedding to the amount of time you spent getting ready for, planning and preparing for the marriage? Most couples spend an exhorbant amount of time, money and energy planning the wedding, but very little time, if any at all, preparing for the marriage. So, what if, as an investment in your marriage, you read some books on marriage or relationships or how to love your spouse better this year? I can recommend some good books if you're interested. Got any suggestions for me?
Now think about parenting. Most people work hard to come up with a name for the little suckers, they take childbirth classes, they pack the suitcase for the hospital, they paint and decorate the nursery, but how many parents spend some time and energy preparing to do the hard job of parenting? I was really convicted by this thought. So, my goal is to read four parenting books this year. Just finished this one. It's fantastic. I'm looking for the next good parenting book. Got any recommendations?
So, what are you reading? Maybe, for the sake of your marriage or your kids, you should invest in a few good books, buckle down and read.
Have you ever compared the amount of time you spent getting ready for, planning and preparing for your wedding to the amount of time you spent getting ready for, planning and preparing for the marriage? Most couples spend an exhorbant amount of time, money and energy planning the wedding, but very little time, if any at all, preparing for the marriage. So, what if, as an investment in your marriage, you read some books on marriage or relationships or how to love your spouse better this year? I can recommend some good books if you're interested. Got any suggestions for me?
Now think about parenting. Most people work hard to come up with a name for the little suckers, they take childbirth classes, they pack the suitcase for the hospital, they paint and decorate the nursery, but how many parents spend some time and energy preparing to do the hard job of parenting? I was really convicted by this thought. So, my goal is to read four parenting books this year. Just finished this one. It's fantastic. I'm looking for the next good parenting book. Got any recommendations?
So, what are you reading? Maybe, for the sake of your marriage or your kids, you should invest in a few good books, buckle down and read.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Monday, February 23, 2009
The Temptation
We live in the south, which means we live in the Bible belt. There are churches everywhere. In my county there are +/- 500 churches. Which presents some problems.
Matt Chandler says, Many of us don't even know what church even is. Church is just songs and sermons. But that's not Biblical. That's not church. Church is a group of men and women walking together, covenanting with one another, to do life together for the glory of God, and for the sanctification of their souls in the fullness of him.
I know I've said this before, but church isn't just something we go to. It's something we belong to. It's something to be a part of. I would go so far to say that most Christians in our area go to church but do not belong to one. The temptation for Hub City Church is that we become just another church that people go to... and we could do that. But then I'd have to quit because that's not what I want to be a part of and it's not what Jesus had in mind for his bride.
When church is just something that you go to then it has no power, no vitality and no strength.
The church is a body that we belong to. That means that each part must live in constant interaction and relationship to each other part. But this is hard. Most of us don't know how to do this. Heck, I don't really know how to do this... but I'm learning. It's messy. It requires transparency and openness. It requires acceptance and forgiveness. It actually requires us to love each other (profound thought).
But wouldn't be awesome to create that kind of transformational, disciple-making community, in Spartanburg?
Matt Chandler says, Many of us don't even know what church even is. Church is just songs and sermons. But that's not Biblical. That's not church. Church is a group of men and women walking together, covenanting with one another, to do life together for the glory of God, and for the sanctification of their souls in the fullness of him.
I know I've said this before, but church isn't just something we go to. It's something we belong to. It's something to be a part of. I would go so far to say that most Christians in our area go to church but do not belong to one. The temptation for Hub City Church is that we become just another church that people go to... and we could do that. But then I'd have to quit because that's not what I want to be a part of and it's not what Jesus had in mind for his bride.
When church is just something that you go to then it has no power, no vitality and no strength.
The church is a body that we belong to. That means that each part must live in constant interaction and relationship to each other part. But this is hard. Most of us don't know how to do this. Heck, I don't really know how to do this... but I'm learning. It's messy. It requires transparency and openness. It requires acceptance and forgiveness. It actually requires us to love each other (profound thought).
But wouldn't be awesome to create that kind of transformational, disciple-making community, in Spartanburg?
Friday, February 20, 2009
Video shoot
Just finished shooting a video of Sunday's sermon... in case I'm throwing up... which seems more likely now that Matthew's the third and final victim.
Kind of weird speaking/preaching to a video camera. I couldn't tell if I was connecting or if the camera was taking a nap.
Kind of weird speaking/preaching to a video camera. I couldn't tell if I was connecting or if the camera was taking a nap.
Water your grass
One of the challenges I gave married couples last Sunday was to water their grass. In other words, invest in their marriage. I challenged couples to do things for each other that they used to do when they were dating. I challenged guys to shave, take a shower and wear clean underwear (or underwear without holes). I challenged them to date their spouse, to apologize to one another, to listen to each other.
I forgot one think that might be huge for some couple. Are you ready? It's profound. Talk. Talk to each other. Turn off the TV and talk. Maybe fast from TV for a week and instead use that time to talk with one another.
Water your grass.
I forgot one think that might be huge for some couple. Are you ready? It's profound. Talk. Talk to each other. Turn off the TV and talk. Maybe fast from TV for a week and instead use that time to talk with one another.
Water your grass.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Some prayer
I know I posted about Levi being sick... well, he still is... and Liz came home from work sick.... I would appreciate you praying that the sickness stops with her. We don't really need all 5 of us blowing chunks..., or at least I don't want all five of us to get it.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Fundamentally different
I'm a bit reluctant to post this, but it's something I've been thinking lately. This past Wednesday I got to share with a group of pastors in York a little about our story and who we are as a church. For some reason, at the time, I felt like I left something out of my talk, and it wasn't until my drive home that I realized what it was. Who we are as a church is fundamentally different than most churches (notice I said different, not better... that's a big distinction. Don't hear what I'm not saying.).
Our mission is to make disciples who make disciples. Everything we do fits under that umbrella. Discipleship as a program that we do in addition to other stuff. It's all we do. That's why everything we do fits into our process for making disciples. Pretty simple (not easy, but simple).
It's also a relational process. We're trying to be intentional so that everything we do leads to relationships. Some of my Idaho friends say it this way: Making Biblical disciples in a relational context. I like that.
Not sure if this makes any sense... like I've said before, this blog is often more for my processing than other's benefit. :)
Our mission is to make disciples who make disciples. Everything we do fits under that umbrella. Discipleship as a program that we do in addition to other stuff. It's all we do. That's why everything we do fits into our process for making disciples. Pretty simple (not easy, but simple).
It's also a relational process. We're trying to be intentional so that everything we do leads to relationships. Some of my Idaho friends say it this way: Making Biblical disciples in a relational context. I like that.
Not sure if this makes any sense... like I've said before, this blog is often more for my processing than other's benefit. :)
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
My story is better than yours
So, Levi threw up all night. Fun. So, Liz decided to stay home for a while this AM with him. Well, she got a call that there was a fire at her office building, so she couldn't go into the office and is getting to work from home (like me!).
Vomit and fire. I dare you to top that today.
PS. Green beans make for really disgusting vomit.
PSS. Levi just said, "It's fun to throw up." He doesn't get that from me.
Vomit and fire. I dare you to top that today.
PS. Green beans make for really disgusting vomit.
PSS. Levi just said, "It's fun to throw up." He doesn't get that from me.
Honesty
I read this on Shawn's blog yesterday and it resonated with me. I have the same desire for our church, our team and our Hub Groups.
One of the other most important Ministry Team Values at [Hub City Church] is honesty. We practice and expect honesty from each other as a team. If loyalty brings leverage in a relationship, honesty brings loyalty--in the long run. However, the right kind of honesty on a team often brings SHORT TERM conflict. REAL honesty often rocks the boat. Total honesty can create awkward moments.
As some of you know, I believe one of the most damaging things that can happen on a team is when people are 90% honest with each other. I fact, I believe that most of the time, people share about 10% of their total honest feelings in conversations BECAUSE they don't want to to rock the boat. On our team, however, we practice and expect our team tell tell each other our "last ten percent." Let me know what you REALLY think. Tell me when I made you mad. Tell me when I hurt your feelings. Tell me what you REALLY think about my idea. Tell me how you REALLY think the service went this past Sunday. Tell me what you REALLY think about my preaching. Notice I said: "Tell ME". Not everyone else. That's where total honesty builds loyalty! If anyone on my team can be totally honest with me, they shouldn't have to go "vent" to anyone else! "Venting" is not Biblical and we don't allow it on ou team!
I'll grant you, not every team wants to practice the "last ten percent". Not everyone one wants to hear the last ten percent. However, I think that's because we're not used to practicing it anywhere else in our lives! Even in our own families! Here's the cool part, though: Total honesty fosters excellence. Total honesty helps me improve. Total honesty helps me make the best decisions possible. Total honesty helps keep a clean slate in our relationship. Loyalty and honesty: values of a great team! Our team!
Sunday, February 15, 2009
8 Baby Steps to Adultery
Today we're in week three of this series we're calling Sex Ed and we're talking about Adultery. We camped out in Proverbs 5. Here are the 8 Baby Steps to Adultery that I talked about:
- They enjoy common interests.
- They share personal information.
- They anticipate time together.
- They hide the relationship from their spouses.
- They flirt with minor arousing touch.
- They invent excuses to call or meet.
- They deceive their spouse with words and actions.
- They engage sexually.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Prayers por favor
I'm about to take off with some of our team to Immersion 2. Would appreciate you praying for this time for us. We're going to plan, learn, develop and have fun. Thanks for praying.
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
What I've been reading lately
I have a confession to make. I like reading leadership books. The problem, however, is that I often come away from most leadership books with some disappointment, and an unexplainable unsettledness. That was not the case with Nancy Ortberg's new book. It is fantastic. Quite possibly the best book on leadership I've ever read. I was trying to figure out why I think it might earn that honor and here's what I came up with. While leaders are important, they aren't the superheros that other leadership books make them out to be. She talks about teamwork, collaboration, creating tension, and conflict. Honestly, the way she talks about leadership reminds me of this Rabbi guy who lead twelve nobodies to change the world. Great book. Definitely a must read.
So far I've read every book from Malcolm Gladwell. I love his stuff. Seriously, it's some of the most unique and thought provoking stuff out there. His latest book doesn't disappoint. The main point of the book is that success doesn't just happen. It's the result of being in the right place at the right time, being born in the right place at the right time, having the right resources available, perserverance, and 10,000 hours of practice. It's definitely caused me to rethink all those "out-of-nowhere" success stories. It's a great, fun read.
While I've g
ot other books in the pipeline, I just started this book. I'm supposed to write a review on in for a local magazine (Roots). So far it's pretty interesting. I think I've got an idea for a No Perfect People Allowed part 2 series. You'll just have to wait until the fall to find out more about that.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
What's God up to?
A lot of people are going through hard times right now. People are losing jobs. People's jobs aren't paying what they used to. Everybody's tightening their belts (except District 7). And to be honest, it doesn't look like there's a whole lot of hope on the horizon.
Here's a thought: When we're in a situation that we don't understand we're tempted to try and figure out how to get out of the situation... which is sometimes a good idea, but not always a good idea. Sometimes, that situation, is exactly where God wants us to be.
I think God is up to something. The difficulties you're facing now are part of your discipleship process. They are circumstances that God is using to refine you, grow you, make you more like Jesus. I know that doesn't make you feel any better, but it's true.
What if, instead of trying to figure everything out and trying to fix everything, you instead asked, "God, what are you up to in me? What are you trying to develop in me? What are you trying to shape in me? What are you up to?
God's always up to something. Too often we miss out on what God's doing because we forget that.
Here's a thought: When we're in a situation that we don't understand we're tempted to try and figure out how to get out of the situation... which is sometimes a good idea, but not always a good idea. Sometimes, that situation, is exactly where God wants us to be.
I think God is up to something. The difficulties you're facing now are part of your discipleship process. They are circumstances that God is using to refine you, grow you, make you more like Jesus. I know that doesn't make you feel any better, but it's true.
What if, instead of trying to figure everything out and trying to fix everything, you instead asked, "God, what are you up to in me? What are you trying to develop in me? What are you trying to shape in me? What are you up to?
God's always up to something. Too often we miss out on what God's doing because we forget that.
Monday, February 09, 2009
Lewis and Keller on humility
Read a great article this AM from Tim Keller on humility. Thought I'd share a quote from C.S. Lewis that Keller included and a few thoughts from Keller.
If we find that our religious life is making us feel that we are good--above all, that we are better than someone else--I think we may be sure that we are being acted on, not by God, but by the Devil. -Lewis
Gracious, self-forgetful humility should be one of the primary things that distinguishes Christian believers from the many other types of moral, decent people in the world. But I think it is fair to say that humility, which is a key differentiating mark of the Christian, is largely missing in the church. Nonbelievers, detecting the stench of sanctimony, turn away. -Keller
If we find that our religious life is making us feel that we are good--above all, that we are better than someone else--I think we may be sure that we are being acted on, not by God, but by the Devil. -Lewis
Gracious, self-forgetful humility should be one of the primary things that distinguishes Christian believers from the many other types of moral, decent people in the world. But I think it is fair to say that humility, which is a key differentiating mark of the Christian, is largely missing in the church. Nonbelievers, detecting the stench of sanctimony, turn away. -Keller
Thursday, February 05, 2009
Preach it Ed
I believe somewhere along the way we have become confused in thinking that it is our methods, marketing, programs, staff, and facilities that will grow the church. We've somehow forgotten the impact of God working through the Spirit of God to complete his intentions from the Word of God to serve as a catalyst for transforming lost sinners into becoming the redeemed people of God. - Ed Stetzer
churplanter.com tickets?
So, any of my readers out there have a few extra churchplanters.com tickets you want to give away? For free? If you could hook me up let me know.
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
Good stuff
I've been trecking through the book of Romans. Maybe it's just me, but often times I find Romans difficult to read. But this AM I read this. Definitely good stuff. Very encouraging. No matter what's going on in your life, what you've done, what you've seen, where you are, whatever... meditate on this for a while today. I am.
Tuesday, February 03, 2009
Where would you invest?
Just read an interesting article. It got me thinking about something.
I want Hub City to be known as a generous church. I most definitely don't want us to end up spending all of the money that people give on ourselves. Currently we give away 10% of whatever comes in to support two church plants and foreign and domestic missionaries. We also invest a huge chunk of funds locally through Movies in the Park and other local missions activities. I would love for us to get to a place one day when we're giving 50% or more of our income away.
So that leads me to this question: If you were in charge of giving 50% of Hub City's income away, where would you give it to? I'd love to hear your suggestions. What organizations should we support? What causes should we give to? Who should we bless? Who knows, sometime in the future something that you mention might be something we support.
I want Hub City to be known as a generous church. I most definitely don't want us to end up spending all of the money that people give on ourselves. Currently we give away 10% of whatever comes in to support two church plants and foreign and domestic missionaries. We also invest a huge chunk of funds locally through Movies in the Park and other local missions activities. I would love for us to get to a place one day when we're giving 50% or more of our income away.
So that leads me to this question: If you were in charge of giving 50% of Hub City's income away, where would you give it to? I'd love to hear your suggestions. What organizations should we support? What causes should we give to? Who should we bless? Who knows, sometime in the future something that you mention might be something we support.
Conflict is good... huh?
Very few people love conflict. Most avoid it. Those that do love it usually just like being able to pounce on somebody else so they can win and feel better about themselves. But here's a profound thought I came across the other day: What if conflict and conflict resolution are as important in our discipleship as prayer and Bible reading? I think that it might be, and as a result, since most of us avoid it or don't handle it the right way then we're missing out on an essential aspect of our discipling.
It's also something that's essential to healthy teams (churches). Nancy Ortberg says this: Great teams need spirited, unfiltered debate. They need it to clear the air, they need it to trust each other, and they need it to make important decisions worth committing to. Great teams need leaders who are comfortable with debate and actually require it.
It's said that the further up in an organization you go the less likely you are to hear the truth. I want people to tell me the truth. I want people to disagree with me and challenge me. I want to do the same to them. I think that kind of conflict helps teams grow. I also think that kind of conflict is essential to discipleship.
It's also something that's essential to healthy teams (churches). Nancy Ortberg says this: Great teams need spirited, unfiltered debate. They need it to clear the air, they need it to trust each other, and they need it to make important decisions worth committing to. Great teams need leaders who are comfortable with debate and actually require it.
It's said that the further up in an organization you go the less likely you are to hear the truth. I want people to tell me the truth. I want people to disagree with me and challenge me. I want to do the same to them. I think that kind of conflict helps teams grow. I also think that kind of conflict is essential to discipleship.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
I've got to be honest. I'm feeling nervous about our new series that starts on Sunday. Sex is such a sensitive subject. So many people carry hurt and shame and guilt over stuff they've done or had done to them. I so much want to communicate both grace and truth (that's what Jesus did... just read John 1:14).
Don't get me wrong. I'm really excited about the series. It's a subject that the church needs to discuss, but it's a subject that needs to be discussed in the right way. I want to be a voice of hope. I want Hub City to be a community where people can be real and accepted and find healing, grace and forgiveness. I sure would appreciate your prayers.
Don't get me wrong. I'm really excited about the series. It's a subject that the church needs to discuss, but it's a subject that needs to be discussed in the right way. I want to be a voice of hope. I want Hub City to be a community where people can be real and accepted and find healing, grace and forgiveness. I sure would appreciate your prayers.
Monday, January 26, 2009
Thoughts on yesterday
Yesterday was a really cool day for Hub City. We had one of our largest crowds ever. We had a bunch of new folks. We had a new couple in my Hub Group (which was fantastic... and Allen did a phenom job telling the story). It was fun having a full drum set (Jacob was rockin'). I got to play the wii with my boys. It was a good day, but at the same time, I left our gathering yesterday with a bit of an unsettled feeling.
I hate it when I get that "feeling" that something's not right, but I don't know what it is and I can't figure out what it is... you know what I'm talking about? Well, I took Henry for a walk yesterday afternoon and it hit me. It's nothing big, but I think it'll be pretty profound for our Gatherings. What I'm I talking about? I can't tell you, but this Sunday we'll test it out. Let me know if you notice a difference.
I've got to say. I really love being a part of Hub City. I love out team. I love my Hub group. I love what God's doing in people's lives. I love making disciples who make disciples. I love helping people hear from God and do what he says. I love creating a church that 20 and 30 somethings want to be a part of.
I hate it when I get that "feeling" that something's not right, but I don't know what it is and I can't figure out what it is... you know what I'm talking about? Well, I took Henry for a walk yesterday afternoon and it hit me. It's nothing big, but I think it'll be pretty profound for our Gatherings. What I'm I talking about? I can't tell you, but this Sunday we'll test it out. Let me know if you notice a difference.
I've got to say. I really love being a part of Hub City. I love out team. I love my Hub group. I love what God's doing in people's lives. I love making disciples who make disciples. I love helping people hear from God and do what he says. I love creating a church that 20 and 30 somethings want to be a part of.
Friday, January 23, 2009
Bummer
The story didn't air last night. Sorry to those who stayed up to watch for nada. I must have been too much of a dork to put on air. Maybe they'll air it at a later date.
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Prayer
I would appreciate your prayers. I'm about to be interviewed by Fox Carolina about our Sex Ed series. I'm a tad bit nervous. You can watch tonight @ 10 to see how foolish I sound/look.
Something to ponder
When was the last time God spoke to you about what He wanted to do and you were scared to death by it's magnitude? - Henry Blackaby
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Together
I'm almost finished reading this book. It's possibly one of the best leadership books I've read. I will definitely reread it.
I came across this quote the other day that I've been meaning to pass along. On page 114 Nancy quotes someone who says, "We all know that we are better people when we get around each other."
Wow.
That's profound.
Think about who you hang out with. Are you better people when you get around each other? Think about who you work with. Are you better people when you get around each other? Think about the people who are a part of your church. Are you better people when you're around each other?
That's how it should be. That's the kind of work environment I want to be a part of. That's the kind of Hub Group I want to be a part of. That's the kind of church I want to be a part of.
Why?
I should have posted this yesterday, but why do we totally freak out when there's a dusting of snow on the ground? Why were schools cancelled all day yesterday? Why are the kids going to have to make up the day when it wasn't their fault that school was cancelled (and it wasn't the weather's fault either)?
It's like somebody sprinkled baby powder in my yard and so they cancelled school. I just don't understand. If you can tell me why I'd really appreciate it. :)
FYI: My boys had a fun day off of school and enjoyed playing in the dust.
It's like somebody sprinkled baby powder in my yard and so they cancelled school. I just don't understand. If you can tell me why I'd really appreciate it. :)
FYI: My boys had a fun day off of school and enjoyed playing in the dust.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Lovin' it
I really love this series we've been doing on Sunday mornings called TXT. The point behind the series is pretty simple: I want people to read their Bibles. I have been completely blown away with people's response. It quite possibly could be the most response I've every gotten from a series. KEEP READING!!!
I know it sounds simple, but I think that reading the Bible is one of the most important disciplines a disciple of Jesus can do. Going hand-in-hand, however, is doing what it says. Which leads me to a verse I read this AM out of Joshua 22:5. The Eastern Tribes had just finished their tour of duty helping clear the land west of the Jordan for their fellow Israelites and were now permitted to go back home. Before they left Joshua gave them this instruction: Be very careful to obey all the commands and the instructions that Moses gave to you. Love the Lord your God, walk in His ways, obey His commands, hold firmly to Him, and serve Him with all your heart and all your soul.
What if that verse characterized our lives? What if, when people talked about us, they said things that were in that verse? What if we could be known as people who love the Lord our God, who walk in His ways, who obey his commands, who hold firmly to Him, and who serve Him with all our hearts and all our souls?
It's about hearing from God and doing what He says.
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